We Push Marks, Not Health — And That’s Why Students Are Burning Out

When student health is prioritised, learning becomes sustainable — and success becomes meaningful.

Jansi Vaithinathan
6 minutes read
Health is primarily important for a student's progress.

In almost every Indian home, the atmosphere changes the moment a child hits the “board exam” years or starts preparing for entrance tests. The house goes quiet, social visits stop, and the focus shifts entirely to one thing: the marksheet. We’ve been taught that education is the only ladder to success, so we invest everything—money, time, and hope—into coaching, tuition, and extra classes. But the puzzle misses one important piece — the importance of health for students.

Educationists and career counsellors often observe this: We are building the house, but we’re forgetting the foundation.

Think about it. We expect our children to sit for 10 hours a day, absorb complex theories, and make life-shaping decisions at 17. But we expect them to do it on five hours of sleep, a diet of “quick” snacks, and a mind that is constantly buzzing with anxiety.

If a student is struggling to focus or lacks motivation, our first instinct is often to blame their “focus” or look for a better teacher. But if we look closer, it’s usually not a lack of talent. It’s a health signal. Keep reading to understand why health plays a critical role in a student’s success at school and college.

It’s Not “Laziness”—It’s Biology

We often hear parents say, “My child is so smart, but they are just lazy.” Let’s look at that through a holistic lens.

Did you know that the brain is an energy hog? Even though it’s small, it uses about 20% of your body’s energy. If a student skips breakfast or lives on “instant” noodles, their blood sugar is on a roller coaster. That “afternoon slump” where they can’t focus on Math? That’s not laziness—that’s a physical crash.

And then there’s the “Midnight Oil” myth. In our culture, the student who stays up until 3:00 AM is seen as a hero. But science tells us the opposite. While your child sleeps, their brain is actually “filing” away what they learned that day. Without sleep, that information stays in a messy pile. They might study all night, but by the time they hit the exam hall, the brain is too tired to “find” the answers.

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Recognizing the “SOS” Signals

We need to stop seeing health and studies as two different things that do not overlap. In fact, they are closely dependent. A body that is tired or a mind that is overwhelmed simply cannot learn, no matter how much you pay for coaching.

As mothers and mentors, we have to start decoding what our children are actually telling us:

  • “I can’t focus”: Sometimes, this is just a body crying out for 20 minutes of movement or sunlight.
  • “I don’t care about my career”: This is rarely true. Usually, it’s a sign of burnout. Their mental battery is at 1%, and they literally don’t have the energy to care about the future.
  • “I’m scared”: This is emotional health. If a child doesn’t feel safe to fail, they won’t have the confidence to try.

Thus, health in all aspects is super important for students. Period.

The Holistic Foundation

Holistic health isn’t a “fancy” term. It just means looking at your child as a whole person, not just a “marks-producing machine.”

  • Physical: Are they eating for energy or just for fullness?
  • Mental: Is their mind so cluttered with “what ifs” that there’s no room for “how-tos”?
  • Emotional: Do they know their value is more than their percentage?

When we support these three areas, the “studying” part actually becomes easier. It stops being a struggle and starts being a natural process.

From Daily Habits to Lifelong Success

So, how do we actually move from “pressure” to “progress”? It’s not about adding more to your child’s already overflowing plate. It’s about changing the rhythm of that plate.

The “Holistic Daily Rhythm”

Often, the most successful students aren’t those who study the longest, but those who study the smartest. Remember, health is the first priority and is important for students’ progress. Here is a simple, holistic framework you can introduce at home:

  1. The 90-10 Rule: The human brain isn’t built for 4-hour marathons. Encourage your child to study in 90-minute blocks followed by a 10-minute “movement break.” No, scrolling on a phone doesn’t count! A quick walk, stretching, or even just stepping onto the balcony helps reset their focus.
  2. The “Digital Sunset”: Blue light from screens at night tells the brain it’s still daytime, which ruins sleep quality. Try to have a “digital sunset” at home, where all devices are put away 60 minutes before bed. Use this time for light reading or just a chat.
  3. The Connection Minute: Mothers, this is your superpower. Spend 5 minutes every day talking to your child about something—anything—that isn’t related to school, marks, or career. It reminds them that they are loved for who they are, not just what they achieve. This emotional safety net is the greatest cure for exam anxiety.

Why Health Habits are “Career Skills”

You might be wondering, “This is great for school, but what about their future?” Here is the truth: The world of 2027 and beyond doesn’t just need people with high marks. It needs people with high Resilience. By teaching your child to prioritize their health now, you are giving them the ultimate career toolkit.

  • Emotional Regulation: A child who learns to handle exam stress holistically today will be the professional who handles a high-pressure boardroom tomorrow without burning out.
  • Sustainability: We see so many young professionals in India “crashing” two years into their dream jobs. Why? Because they never learned how to balance work with wellness.
  • Clarity: A tired mind makes “panic decisions.” A healthy, rested mind makes “purpose decisions.” When your child is healthy, they will have the clarity to choose a career path that actually fits their soul.

The Role of the Mentor (And the Mother)

Mentors and teachers should ensure that no student has to choose between their ambition and their health. Their role isn’t just to hand out a list of college degrees; it’s to help students become healthy, vibrant individuals who are capable of sustaining success.

But this journey starts at home. Mothers, you are the first mentors. When you prioritize rest, acknowledge their emotions, and make health a non-negotiable part of the day, you aren’t “slowing them down.” You are giving them the fuel to go further than they ever imagined.

Awareness is the first step. When parents understand that health is not a distraction from studies but a support system for learning, the entire educational experience becomes healthier.

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Shifting the Perspective

The aim is not to reduce focus on academics. The aim is to strengthen academics by supporting health.

When students feel physically energised, emotionally safe, and mentally calm, they naturally:

  • Focus better
  • Learn faster
  • Handle exams with confidence
  • Think more clearly about their future

This blog exists to create that awareness — helping parents and students understand that true educational success begins with well-being.

Because when health is nurtured early, learning becomes sustainable — and success becomes meaningful.

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